NodeConfig defaults + code-quality pass + fuzz tests + README

NodeConfig.Spec.Defaults adds per-node IPv6/IPv4 family defaults that pod
annotations can override; built-in baseline (v6=true, v4=false) still
applies when the field is omitted.

bird.Render now validates every operator-supplied value (peer addresses,
CIDRs, anycast IPs, source addresses) before templating — fuzz found a
peer address containing `}` produced unbalanced braces in bird.conf.
Failing input preserved as a regression seed.

Fuzz targets added for ParseAnnotations, ParseCNIArgs, HostIfaceName,
canonical, IPAM allocate sequences, embed.Embed, and bird.Render.
Hardened canonical/ipToU32 against nil and non-IPv4 inputs.

README rewritten for outside readers — quickstart, NodeConfig + annotation
reference with worked examples, anycast use cases, comparison vs Calico
and Cilium, requirements, limitations.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

pkg/routing/bird/testdata/fuzz/FuzzRender/568393b92f99b2ad

@@ -0,0 +1,11 @@
+go test fuzz v1
+string("0")
+uint32(65101)
+string("0")
+uint32(1)
+string("")
+string("")
+string("")
+string("}")
+string("")
+string("")