Previously the AnycastReconciler kept a pod in the nexthop set as long as
its PodReady condition was True. During a rolling restart that produces a
window after kubelet has accepted SIGTERM (DeletionTimestamp set, pod
still Ready until probes observe shutdown) where BGP still advertises a
path through the dying pod's veth — in-flight requests get RST'd when
the container actually exits.
Fix: introduce podAnycastEligible(pod) = !DeletionTimestamp && Ready,
swap it in at the AnycastReconciler's isReady callback, and fire the
ready-change callback when DeletionTimestamp transitions (the informer
UpdateFunc previously only fired on Ready transitions).
Result: as soon as the apiserver marks a pod for deletion, the
reconciler withdraws the local nexthop and BIRD reannounces the route
without it. Sibling replicas absorb traffic before the pod's
terminationGracePeriod elapses.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>
Donavan Fritz